Ask the Right Questions First
OK. You have joined a couple of dating services and written a killer profile.
You’ve uploaded a good picture and now you are going to chat with a contact.
What now? How do you start separating those who have real
potential and those who don’t have any potential at all? You need to find out
something about who this strange woman really is and not just who she wants you
to believe she is.
It would be nice if women wore labels like “Gold Digger”
or “Daddy’s girl”….but they don’t so it’s up to you to find these things
out and you can’t just ask direct questions. You need to know what mistakes you
can avoid making and how to impress this lady if you decide you want to do that.
After you are past the initial small talk, ask her, “What are the biggest
mistakes guys make when dating online?” Listen carefully to her answers. She’s
going to tell you a lot about herself and her views on men in general.
Next you should ask her, “What do you really think about online dating?” Now she
will tell you if she has had any bad experiences dating o line and help you to
avoid making the same things wrong.
Now for the all-important one…..”What caused the break up in your last
relationship?” If she puts all the blame on the guy, you should probably move on
to the next prospect. If she takes all the blame herself, you should probably do
If she says the breakup was by mutual consent or that the
relationship just wasn’t right for either of them, you’ve heard the right
answer. Move forward but always with caution.
Asking the right questions will give you insight and make you more confident
when you meet the lady for the first time.
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